A few truths…..
Hands up if you have always wanted to do a boudoir session? Maybe you’ve come super close to booking but then talk yourself out of it….
Maybe you made it to contacting me but ignored the reply because you chickened out, but then continued to look at our page thinking of all the reasons under the sun to WHY it couldn’t be you?!
You know the voice that says;
I need to lose weight……
I need to gain weight……
I don’t deserve this, I am not worth it……
I cannot look that good…..
It’s ok for them, they’re all models……
I cannot afford it…….
The list goes on and on and on……. You know the things we like to tell ourselves when we have any doubt that we can or should do something?! The thoughts we get when we feel that guilt for wanting to do something for ourself? I know you know the one.
Maybe you made it to speaking to me and booking yourself in to THEN overthink it and put it off or wanted to change dates or even cancel?!
TRUTHS -
If we are gonna get honest - it's not about the money, it’s not about the weight or whatever else you have in your head.
You can be booked in and make any changes you like to your weight BUT in camera you cannot tell if you are 5kg lighter or heavier.
With our multiple payment options including flexible payment plans, this experience is 100% affordable for those who really want to do it. It is a luxury experience, not something you do every day so you may have to save to do it and we even help with that.
Our clients are NOT models, just women like you who probably also thought they couldn’t do it either. They aren’t all a size 8 who have no body image issues. Our average size is more the size 12-14 lady!
The reason you haven't reached out, the reason you haven’t booked in, and the reason you haven’t followed up with our reply is because you haven't really figured out your “why”.
You see; you need a WHY that is strong enough to make you push PAST all of the EXCUSES. This experience isn’t you something you do everyday and 99% of the ladies who come in are nervous, anxious or scared in someway. Aren’t we all when we do something that is outside our comfort zone?!
But you see, if we have a “why” that is strong enough it quashes any of the excuses you tell yourself. It’s like anything in life really 🤷🏼♀️
Every lady who comes into the studio has a different why and it’s something we share and use to create their experience for them. Some are things like;
🔥 I want to learn to love myself for what I am and my post baby body. I want to feel good about myself and enjoy some self care and love which I never get time for any more since becoming a Mother.
🔥 I want to embrace and celebrate my body after weight loss/gain.
🔥 I want to feel sexy again, feel desirable which I have lost in past years.
🔥 I want to gift this to my partner for a wedding/anniversary etc (99% of these ladies say they secretly want to do it for themselves too to celebrate them!)
🔥 I have been going to do this for 10, 20, 30 years and I have never ever done it! I’m sick of putting it off and just need to do it because I am not living with regret any longer.
🔥 I want to celebrate my divorce and give myself the confidence to live life to the fullest with my new life ahead!
🔥 I NEED to do this for me.
🔥 I need to capture my body as it is before I go through a double mastectomy (or some other life changing op).
The truth is that every lady has their own why, some similar to others but it’s their OWN. Having your own Why is the only thing that will be strong enough to push you outside of your circle of comfort and into that zone of growth.
So if you are one of the ladies sitting there thinking that you would love to do it but keep thinking about ALL the reasons why you cannot do it, then ask yourself this one question -
"Why do I really want to Do this?"
A lady that has a why will make it happen. Because the truth is you can do it, WE can make it happen for YOU and YOU are worth it ❤️
